First, calm down. Your first sentence went 7 lines long with no periods or commas. Breathe!! You may be dealing with some older or unusable standalone players. You might go to and lookup their list of DVD players (make/model) and check your brother's models out. There are other sites out there too that list known compatibility with DVD+/-R/W. You might also want to try burning with another program, other than Nero. Try to create an image (ISO) file from the DVDshrink output, and burn that with something like DVDDecrypter. Simple test. Until you figure out if it's a burner, software or player issue, I'd stick to DVD-RW's for testing. Unless you have money to waste on DVD-R blanks.